2017/01/21

“ Gifts create a sense of obligation. Not debt, exactly, because it can’t be measured. And...


Gifts create a sense of obligation. Not debt, exactly, because it can’t be measured. And because it can’t be measured, it can’t be definitively repaid. If instead you’d given me the coin you spent to buy that, I’d know what I owed, and I could give it back and be done. By giving me a gift instead, you build the sense of owing without a path to repayment, and so I’m more likely, for example, to grant you a favor or make some concession that I’d never have agreed to if I’d been given an explicit price.

~ Cithrin

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